Friday, January 23, 2026

Why Myth and Folklore Matter

 Why Myth and Folklore Matter


Imagine a cracked vessel, its pieces barely holding together, threatening to scatter with the slightest touch. There are moments in life when ordinary language fails us. Catastrophe, cruelty, collective trauma, and personal rupture arrive with such force that familiar frameworks collapse. The mind searches for coherence and finds none. The body holds fear without explanation. The heart knows that life has changed shape, even if it cannot yet describe how.
In these moments, myth and folklore offer a form of intelligence older than analysis and deeper than reassurance. They do not erase pain or provide neat resolutions. Instead, they create a symbolic container large enough to hold experiences that feel alien, overwhelming, or morally incomprehensible. Myth steps in where linear explanation falls short, offering a profound understanding that embraces ambiguity and complexity, aligning with the human need for stories that connect us to the mysterious and the unknown.
Across cultures and centuries, myth and folklore have served as tools for navigating realities that defy reason, whether those realities take the form of war, exile, illness, grief, betrayal, or sudden loss. Embedded within these narratives is the timeless question: How do we stand within chaos? These stories exist because human beings have always encountered forces that threaten their sense of order and identity. Myth does not deny chaos. It teaches us how to stand within it without being erased.

Myth as a Language for the Unspeakable 

One of the primary functions of myth is translation. When an experience feels too vast, too frightening, or too unfamiliar to name directly, myth gives it shape. It transforms terror into narrative, turning raw sensation into symbolic meaning. Consider the story of Anna, a survivor of a natural disaster who found herself in complete disarray after losing her home to a hurricane. In the aftermath, she stumbled upon the myth of the Phoenix, the bird that rises from its ashes. This myth offered her hope and renewal, helping her see beyond the immediate devastation. For Anna, the myth translated her overwhelming fear and loss into a narrative of resilience and rebirth, allowing her to navigate her changed reality with newfound strength.
Consider the ancient flood myths that appear across cultures, from the Epic of Gilgamesh to the story of Noah, from Hindu cosmology to Indigenous oral traditions. These stories did not arise solely from abstract theology. They reflect collective encounters with devastation, environmental collapse, and the terrifying sense that the world itself had turned hostile. Through myth, the flood becomes more than a disaster. It becomes a passage, a cleansing, a rupture that demands ethical reckoning and renewal. Similarly, contemporary narratives about climate change echo these ancient myths. Rising tides, hurricanes, and polar ice melt are part of a modern flood myth that signifies an urgent call for humanity to recognize its impact on the planet and the necessity for transformation and adaptation.
Similarly, myths of descent into the underworld speak to psychological states that feel annihilating from the inside. The Greek story of Persephone, taken into the realm of the dead, gives form to experiences of loss, depression, and enforced transformation. Persephone does not choose descent, and she does not return unchanged. Her myth acknowledges a truth many modern narratives avoid: some experiences alter us permanently, and survival does not mean restoration to a former self. Consider the words of Maya, a trauma survivor, who expressed, 'I emerged from the depths not as the person who went in, but as someone forever changed, carrying the shadows as part of who I have become.' This testimony echoes Persephone’s lesson, tethering the myth to the lived psychology of irreversible transformation.
By framing these experiences within a larger mythic cycle, folklore offers a way to understand suffering without reducing it to pathology or failure.

Folklore as a Map Through Moral Rupture

Myth and folklore also help us navigate situations that feel morally destabilizing, especially encounters with cruelty, betrayal, or systemic violence. When human behavior becomes vile or incomprehensible, myth provides archetypal language for naming what has occurred.
Fairy tales, often dismissed as simple or childish, are particularly adept at this work. Stories like Bluebeard confront the reality of intimate violence and the dangers of willful ignorance. The tale does not soften its warning. Curiosity is framed as survival. Silence is shown as lethal. The monster is not abstract. He lives inside the home. In recent years, true-crime stories reflecting the Bluebeard narrative have surfaced in headlines, reminding us of the ongoing dangers of intimate violence. Such modern accounts underscore the tale's ongoing urgency, serving as a bridge between age-old stories and present-day vigilance.
Trickster figures across cultures also serve an essential function in times of upheaval. Characters like Loki, Coyote, Anansi, or Hermes appear when rules fracture and certainty dissolves. They embody instability itself. Tricksters disrupt, deceive, and expose hypocrisy. In catastrophic conditions, these figures remind us that rigid systems often collapse first, and adaptability becomes a form of wisdom. Yet, the trickster's deceit is paradoxically both destructive and creative. They dismantle existing order but also inspire innovation and change, inviting us to sit with the tension of destruction, paving the way for creation. This duality challenges us to appreciate adaptive ethics, where the interplay between chaos and order leads to growth and transformation.
Through such stories, folklore gives us ethical clarity without simplistic morality. It acknowledges that survival sometimes requires cunning, vigilance, and the ability to read danger before it announces itself.

Myth and the Experience of Radical Otherness

Trauma often produces a sense of estrangement from one's own life. Survivors describe feeling as though they have crossed into an unfamiliar country where old customs no longer apply. Myth understands this territory intimately. Reflect on this: when have you felt exiled from your own life? Such moments of personal inquiry invite us into the emotional landscape that myths have long navigated.
Stories of exile, transformation, and monstrous metamorphosis speak directly to this sense of radical otherness. In Ovid’s Metamorphoses, characters are turned into trees, animals, or stars, often following acts of violence or loss. These transformations are not presented solely as metaphors. They reflect the lived reality of people whose identities have been forcibly reshaped by experience.
In folklore, becoming other is neither moral failure nor personal weakness. It is a consequence of contact with overwhelming forces. Myth reassures us that disorientation is a valid response to rupture, and that meaning can still be forged within altered conditions.

Collective Memory and Cultural Survival

Beyond individual psychology, myth and folklore preserve collective memory. They carry the emotional knowledge of communities that endured famine, colonization, genocide, and displacement. Long after historical records fade, stories retain the emotional truth of what occurred. In current movements for historical justice, such as those seeking recognition for indigenous rights or reparations for colonial injustices, myths provide a vital framework. They connect past struggles to present-day struggles, offering a narrative that empowers communities to seek redress and transformation. Through storytelling, myths illuminate paths for activism, showing how present-day justice can be informed by lessons embedded in ancestral experiences.
Indigenous myths, in particular, often encode survival strategies, environmental knowledge, and spiritual resilience. These stories are not escapist fantasies. They are repositories of lived wisdom, shaped by centuries of adaptation under pressure. To engage with them respectfully is to recognize myth as a form of cultural endurance. As Thomas King, an Indigenous writer and scholar, notes, these narratives carry the weight of history and serve as a roadmap for future generations. By acknowledging and citing Indigenous voices, we honor the rich tradition and continue in the spirit of cultural recognition and respect.
In times of widespread crisis, whether ecological, political, or social, myth reconnects individuals to a larger human lineage. It reminds us that disruption is part of the human record, and that endurance has many forms.

Why Myth Still Matters Now

Modern culture often privileges speed, certainty, and solutions. It thrives on rapid scrolling news cycles, instant communication, and quick fixes, shaping a society that desires immediate gratification and resolution. Myth, on the other hand, operates on different principles. It moves slowly. It tolerates ambiguity. It allows contradiction. These qualities make it uniquely suited for navigating catastrophic or morally complex realities.
Myth does not demand optimism. It does not promise closure. It offers recognition. It says, this has happened before in different forms, to different people, under different names. You are not alone in this terrain. What story or myth offers you solace in uncertain times? Can you recall or seek a narrative that steadies you and imparts wisdom? Inviting ourselves to remember such stories can turn recognition into a practice that enriches our daily lives.
In a world increasingly shaped by rupture, myth and folklore remain essential companions. They do not rescue us from suffering. They teach us how to live with depth, awareness, and meaning when life refuses to behave as expected.
When ordinary language breaks, myth reminds us how to speak.

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

The Body as Oracle

 

The Body as Oracle

The body often registers what is happening before the mind has words for it. Long before a decision feels conscious, the body has already responded: energy shifts, attention narrows or opens, muscles tense or release. We are rarely encouraged to treat these responses as meaningful. Instead, we learn to explain them away, to override them in the name of efficiency or reason, and to keep moving until discomfort becomes impossible to ignore. In doing so, we miss a steady source of information that is available to us all the time.

Fatigue is one of the clearest signals the body offers, though it is frequently misunderstood. Not all tiredness is a problem; some fatigue is simply the result of effort or care. What matters is the quality of it. There is a particular kind of exhaustion that appears out of proportion to the task at hand, or that shows up reliably in certain situations. When fatigue gathers around specific commitments, conversations, or environments, it is often pointing to an ongoing imbalance. Something is being asked that costs more than it returns.

Paying attention does not mean abandoning responsibility or withdrawing from life. It means noticing patterns rather than pushing past them. Often, what needs to change is not the work itself, but the conditions under which it is being done, or the version of yourself that feels required to carry it.

Excitement, by contrast, tends to be subtle and steady. It is not always loud or urgent, and it does not depend on external validation. This kind of excitement shows itself in what continues to interest you after rest, what you return to without pressure, and what feels nourishing even when it is challenging. It does not guarantee success or ease, but it often indicates a form of alignment between the task and your own temperament.

Resistance is the signal we are most likely to pathologize. It is easy to name it fear or avoidance and try to push through. Sometimes that assessment is accurate. Just as often, resistance arises when timing is wrong, when consent is incomplete, or when the scope of what is being asked exceeds what feels sustainable. The body resists what it cannot safely absorb.

When resistance is approached with curiosity rather than force, it becomes more precise. It may soften if the task becomes smaller or less absolute, suggesting the need for adjustment rather than refusal. When it remains firm despite those changes, it may be marking a genuine boundary. Learning to tell the difference takes time and attention, not discipline.

Treating the body as a source of guidance is not about treating sensation as command. Bodies carry habit, history, and memory. The practice is cumulative. You begin to notice what reliably drains you, what restores you without effort, and what only becomes difficult when the stakes or expectations shift. Over time, these observations form a pattern that is hard to dismiss.

This is a grounded form of divination, one rooted in observation rather than symbolism. The body does not speak in declarations or answers. It communicates through timing, sensation, and repetition. When taken seriously, and without judgment, it offers information that is practical, consistent, and already woven into daily life.

Friday, January 9, 2026

Alignment in Action

 I was recently invited to join a regular virtual writers’ group. I’d always seen myself as a lone-wolf writer, so I was open to the idea but a bit skeptical. From the first session, though, those doubts disappeared. Rather than feeling distracted or limited, I actually thrived in the group’s energy.

Our group works in a way that feels simple and special. Sometimes we write quietly, other times we talk. We share ideas and discuss word choices, direction, plot, and dialogue. These conversations don’t interrupt the work. For me, they make it richer. I admire and trust these creative people, and that changes everything.
What surprised me most was how the group’s energy stayed with me even after our meetings. On days when I write alone, I still feel lifted by that shared momentum. My solo writing has started to grow in new ways. I didn’t expect that. It made me realize that some ways of working naturally support the life I want to create.
Alignment is my word for the year, and the Temperance card shows me how to get there. This year is about making small changes, blending things on purpose, and trusting that the right mix will show up if I pay attention. Alignment means choosing what fits and adjusting what doesn’t. It’s about letting my inner truth and my actions work together. Temperance in tarot represents this process.
The angel on the card never keeps the cups still. The water moves back and forth, always testing and adjusting. Alignment works like that too. It’s not about staying the same, but about responding to what’s needed. Things feel easier when I notice what’s off and gently adjust until it feels right again.
Temperance is about bringing things together, not giving something up. Fire and water meet without canceling each other out. In life and work, that’s a powerful balance. Intellect and intuition. Discipline and letting go. Learning and mystery. Nothing important has to be lost, just combined with care.
Patience is also at the heart of this. Temperance moves at the pace that feels right, not at the pace of urgency. When things are aligned, momentum happens naturally. Everything starts to fit together on its own. The steady progress I feel in my writing now feels like alignment in action—less struggle, fewer false starts.
I didn’t plan to find a new way of working this year. It found me. In that unexpected change, I realized I’d started a work practice that fits the word I’ve chosen for 2026: alignment. It’s not a goal to chase or a rule to follow, but a feeling of balanced ease. Harmony. The Temperance card reminds me of this.

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Sixteen Sparks

Celebrating The Bloglet of Fire

 

Today, The Bloglet of Fire turns sixteen.

When I started this little corner of the internet so many years ago, I couldn’t have imagined that it would still be burning brightly all these seasons later—nor that it would grow into something people would seek out, share, and recognize. What began as a simple space for reflection, curiosity, and spiritual exploration gradually became an archive of my life lived in words: the questions that shaped me. These paths surprised me, the stories that helped me return to myself again and again.
Over the years, readers have come and gone like travelers through a warmly lit café, leaving comments, connections, and conversations that helped this blog become more than a solitary practice. It became a shared hearth. A breathing archive. A witness.
Somewhere along the way, The Bloglet of Fire found itself honored—an award-winning presence in the world of visionary resources. Even now, that recognition feels a little surreal. It’s one thing to write into the quiet; it’s another to learn that the quiet has been echoing outward, touching people, offering guidance or companionship when they needed it. I’m humbled that this work has spoken to anyone beyond my own journal pages, and deeply grateful for the acknowledgment from a community I care about so profoundly.
But beyond the awards, beyond the years, beyond the long archive of posts stretching back to those early internet days, what fills me most today is simple joy. Joy that I kept returning to this space. Joy that you, dear reader, kept returning, too. And joy that something as small and steady as a blog can become a lifelong companion.
Sixteen years is no small thing. Thank you for walking beside me, whether from the beginning or just recently joining the flame. Thank you for reading, for sharing, for cheering me on, and for allowing The Bloglet of Fire to grow into its own kind of living myth.
Here’s to the next spark, the following story, and a new season of listening and creating.
With gratitude, humility, and a heart full of light—
Amber


Monday, December 22, 2025

Favorite Media 2025

 

Favorite Media of 2025 


This year I tried something new. 
I kept track of everything I read, watched, and listened to from January through December, not to measure productivity, but to notice what actually nourished me. The result is a delightfully mixed cauldron of books, films, series, podcasts, blogs, and (according to Spotify) 
100 different genres of music all of which feels like a wonderful accidental exploration. 

Here are the standouts. 

Blogs 

Adelaide’s Haunted Horizons 
A wonderfully atmospheric blend of Australian folklore, strange history, and odd human experiences. 

Benebell Wen 
Thoughtful, structured, and immensely generous in its approach to esoteric study. 

EarthFiles 
Curious, investigative reporting that keeps me paying attention to the edges of what we think we know. 

Mary K. Greer’s Tarot Blog 
Insightful teaching rooted in decades of practice, written with clarity and real affection for the cards. 

Books 

James – Percival Everett

A sharp, inventive, and fearless reimagining of Adventures of Huckleberry Finn from Jim’s perspective transforming a familiar American mythos into something incisive, humane, and urgently modern.

The Fissure King – Rachel Pollack 

A wonderfully weird and immersive urban fantasy that showcases Pollack’s imaginative world-building and mythopoeic prose. 

Shakespeare: The Man Who Pays the Rent – Judi Dench & Brendan O’Hea 
A backstage pass with one of our greats, filled with wit and lived-in theatrical wisdom. 

Taylor’s Version: The Poetic and Musical Genius of Taylor Swift – Stephanie Burt 
Drawing from her Harvard course, Burt treats Swift’s work with real academic rigor—highlighting her collaborative, joyful genius, intricate lyrics, and evolution as a writer rather than a celebrity. 

The Tarot Architect – Lon Milo DuQuette 
A characteristically warm, witty, and insightful exploration of Tarot’s esoteric structure. DuQuette makes complex metaphysics feel accessible without sacrificing depth or delight. 

The Shadow of the Wind – Carlos Ruiz ZafĂłn 
A novel that reminded me how a good mystery can also feel like a love letter to books themselves. 

When the Drummers Were Women – Layne Redmond 
Filled with pulse and history, it made ancient rhythms feel alive and relevant in the present. 

Movies 

Amsterdam (2022)

Despite its eccentric narrative, the film dazzles with its lavish 1930s visual flair, striking cinematography, and an ensemble cast that is clearly having fun inhabiting the movie's quirky, historically inspired world. 

Conclave    

This expertly directed and well-acted political thriller maintains a palpable, gripping sense of suspense as it navigates the secrecy, politics, and theological maneuvering inside the Vatican during the selection of a new Pope. 

Enigma (2025, dir. Zackary Drucker) 

A riveting, complex, and vital documentary masterfully juxtaposes the contrasting public and private lives of April Ashley and Amanda Lear, creating a powerful meditation on trans survival, visibility, and the cost of fame. 

Housewife,49   

Victoria Wood's BAFTA-winning performance is utterly compelling, grounding this moving wartime drama with a touching sense of authentic, everyday heroism as an ordinary woman finds her voice. 

Sinners      

An unforgettable and intensely original cinematic experience that masterfully blends a historical period piece with visceral horror and a soulful celebration of Black music and culture. 

Podcasts 

Mythical Kitchen: Last Meals 
Mythical Chef Josh and celebrity guests dive into their ultimate last meals, trading surprising tastes, personal memories, and culinary stories. It’s playful, intimate, and often more heartfelt than you expect. 

Old Gods of Appalachia 
This award-winning horror anthology invites listeners into a mythic Appalachia shaped by old mountains, stranger magic, and haunting folklore. Its immersive worldbuilding makes every episode feel like stepping into a dream you half-remember. 

Rewilding Jude 
Jude documents his move to a remote stone cottage in the Scottish countryside, learning homesteading from scratch while rebuilding a life after burnout and grief. His gentle, wholesome storytelling makes rural living feel both relatable and quietly brave. 

StarTalk 
Neil deGrasse Tyson and guests explore cosmic questions with curiosity and real humor. The show makes big science feel welcoming, playful, and surprisingly easy to fall in love with. 

The Tarot Podcast 
Hosted by author and teacher T. Susan Chang, this podcast welcomes everyone from tarot newcomers to longtime readers. Scholars and practitioners join her to explore the big questions behind the cards with clarity and depth. 

Wildly Imaginable 
Grace shares her creative journey through pens, inks, and journals while sparking new ideas for fellow stationery lovers. Her enthusiasm turns each episode into a bright, encouraging nudge toward your own creativity. 

Series and Documentaries 

A Girl's Guide to Hunting, Fishing, and Wild Cooking  

The series is an intimate and beautifully filmed celebration of self-sufficiency, following a world-class chef as she builds a compelling new life embracing nature and seasonal, wild living in Tasmania. 

Barbara Walters: Tell Me Everything                               

This documentary provides a sharp, insightful, and comprehensive look at the pioneering journalist's extraordinary career, revealing the strategic tenacity she used to shatter glass ceilings and redefine the television interview. 

Dark Winds (final season)     

Featuring stunning cinematography of the Navajo Nation and anchored by exceptional performances, this thriller is a captivating and culturally rich expansion of the classic Tony Hillerman novels. 

Leonardo                                                              

This compelling historical drama brings the Renaissance master's genius and personal struggles to life with lavish production design and a narrative that expertly weaves his iconic artworks into a personal and political mystery. 

Penny Dreadful (Seasons One and Two)                         

These seasons are a masterpiece of Gothic atmosphere and literary depth, distinguished by their exquisite dialogue and Eva Green's mesmerizing, career-defining central performance. 

Star Trek: Strange New Worlds        

Following Captain Christopher Pike and the USS Enterprise a decade before The Original Series, this show returns to Star Trek’s episodic roots while blending modern character depth with the classic optimism and adventure that defined early Trek. 

Twelfth Night (PBS 2025)            

A vibrant, star-studded production, recorded at The Public Theater's Delacorte, is a joyful and richly inventive reimagining of Shakespeare's perfect comedy, full of modern energy and brilliant comic timing. 

Wolf Hall                                                         

A subtle, brilliant, and impeccably acted historical drama, the series immerses the viewer in the tension and low-lit intrigue of the Tudor court, offering a fresh, mesmerizing perspective on the rise of Thomas Cromwell. 

Noteworthy 

V Spehar – “Under the Desk News” 
A uniquely calming and accessible perspective on current events, delivering complex information with empathy and clarity. Their social presence offers a refreshing “safe space” for staying informed without feeling overwhelmed. 

Kristel Yoneda (@sadbutradclubxo) 
Creator of SAD BUT RAD CLUB, a mental-health advocacy movement that destigmatizes the struggles so many of us carry. Her mix of honesty, gentleness, and humor made her work a steady source of heart-warmth this year. 

Timothy Steiner (Hemingway Jones) 
A fountain-pen aficionado and devoted journaler whose love of vintage objects and everyday storytelling has evolved into a deeply satisfying passion for pens, history, and the kind of steady self-reflection that never goes out of style. 

Looking Towards 2026 

Keeping a media-consumption log this year became far more than a record: it was a way of noticing myself. What fed me, what surprised me, what softened me, and what called me forward. I loved the practice enough that I'm already looking toward 2026 with renewed curiosity. I want to see what patterns emerge, which unexpected titles find me, and how my tastes continue to wander across books, screens, headphones, and, apparently, another hundred genres of music. 

Here’s to more exploration! 



 

Why Myth and Folklore Matter

  Why Myth and Folklore Matter Imagine a cracked vessel, its pieces barely holding together, threatening to scatter with the slightest touch...